MINE!!

At my nephew's birthday, and then again at Christmas, Evy demonstrated that she has no concept of sharing toys. In fact, she wants toys just so she can take them away from other kids. After her tantrums I got to wondering if this is considered bad behavior for a child her age or if she is too young to understand the concept. If it's bad behavior I want to try to correct it before it becomes habit. I was amazed to read that sharing is not a behavior that children "get" until around age 3. The experts recommend that you model sharing at this point but that you don't punish for not sharing. This toy stealing is just typical behavior for an active toddler. I'm glad to know we still have a few years to teach her how to be a generous friend. Whew! We haven't blown it yet!

Teacher's Pet

Evy's room at daycare has been closed for a few days for some maintenance work. In the interim, the kids in Evy's class are being split between the nursery and the older toddler room. Evy is the youngest in her class so it makes sense that she's been going to the nursery. Yesterday when I picked her up I was asking the nursery teachers how many other kids from Evy's class are in the nursery. The teacher replied, "Well, we request that Evy comes in here." I was confused, and asked why. The teacher said, "because she's nice to the babies and doesn't scream like the rest of the kids. She had her arm around one of the babies today." At first I wondered if she was actually talking about Evy or if perhaps she thought I was the mother of a different child, but then I decided to soak up the praise and have my first proud mother moment. The teachers said she is very motherly and they like having her in the room. My sweet little baby!

Christmas

Evy started celebrating Christmas on December 19 when she found a gift bag under the tree, decided to pull the tissue paper out and discovered a toy dog! She started grunting when she saw the dog so I didn't have the heart to take it away from her and make her wait. Her next celebration came on December 24 at Grandma and Grandpa S's. She dressed up like a little Santa to go see great-grandma Maxine and had fun playing with her cousin Jacob. Santa brought her a big girl chair and she's having a blast trying to nose dive off of it. Who thought chairs were for sitting? The morning of December 26 we had a quick gift opening at our house where Evy got a sled. She's hoping to try it out this weekend. Later that day we went to Grandma and Grandpa C's house. Evy had great fun playing with her cousin Kate who luckily is a good sharer. Kate had a doll that Evy really liked and Evy spent most of her time trying to take it away from Kate. Grammy taught Evy and Kate how to play the piano. This was an excellent time filler until Evy wanted to play the piano at 6 a..m. while the rest of the house was sleeping. At gma and gpa C's Evy got a stroller for her baby doll and LOVES pushing it around the house. Above, you can see the only attempt at a family photo. I don't know which family photo is better. The one above, or the one in the previous post with Santa?!?!

Not A Fan

Dear Santa,
From afar you look like a very nice guy. Up close, you scare the hell out of me. Please leave my presents under the tree and then quickly head back up the chimney. Tell Rudolph hi.

Love,
Evy








P.S. Evy was very happy while we were in line for Santa. Then, Scott handed her to Santa and she freaked. The reason Scott and I are in the photo is because the photographer thought maybe Evy would sit by Santa if I was holding her. WRONG!

Christmas Accomplished

Since this is the only weekend we are home in December I was on a major mission to get all of our Christmas prep done. Final presents bought, 20 gifts wrapped, 6 dozen cookies baked, 2 bags of pretzels dipped and a partridge in a pear tree. If you think Evy was exhausted you should have seen me...

Another Year Older

I turned another year older this week. I took my birthday off and spent a few hours at the spa, can't imagine a better way to spend a birthday! On Saturday night we went across the street to spend a casual night with our neighbors and celebrate two December birthday girls!

Baby Einstein Makes Us All Happy!

Lately, we've been using the Baby Einstein DVD's a little bit more than I would like to admit. Evy hasn't been sleeping great and has been sick twice in 4 weeks so you know what they say...desperate times, call for desperate measures. I don't know why these videos are like crack for baby. I've tried getting Evy to watch Alice in Wonderland, Aladdin, Tom and Jerry, and Scooby Doo among other things but those shows only hold her attention for about 10 minutes. She will sit still for the entire Baby Einstein (BE) DVD. I understand BE is offering refunds to people because they lead people to believe the DVD's made their baby smart. I'm not trying to create a Baby Einstein here I'm just trying to get us all through the day. No refunds needed in this house!